How To Choose An Engagement Ring For Your Love | Brief Guidance


After turning the question over and over a good bunch of times in your head, the finding is today without appeal, you found your half! The one with whom you think to go a long way, and with a bit of luck, walk the whole road together. It’s time to jump in and show your commitment. Traditionally, this involves a formal marriage proposal. Whatever the way, we are not unaware that it comes almost automatically with a pretty engagement ring. It is during the choice of this strong jewel in symbol that one can sometimes meet certain difficulties. What size of ring tower to choose? What size of stone? Which metal? What form of ring? So many questions, whose answers are not fixed, will depend on the future bride’s tastes as well as the budget you want to dedicate to this jewel. Nothing like being able to rely on the advice of professional jewellers to guide you in this choice. Here are some tips to enlighten you and inspire you throughout this thorny step.

How to choose an engagement ring :

How To Choose An Engagement Ring
How To Choose An Engagement Ring

Before addressing the question of the likes of your half or the budget you have, here is a short reminder of the components of a solitaire jewel often selected by the bride to make his request. It consists of a diamond (whatever the size), mounted on a ring, surrounded or not by other smaller stones. The diamond positioned alone or not, will be the centerpiece of this jewel. It is a ring whose price is usually high as the quality and volume of the stone can quickly push up the note. Here are some guidelines that may be useful:

It is necessary to distinguish the different metals which can constitute the ring of the least expensive to the most expensive: the silver, the gold (yellow, white, pink, black) and the platinum (used in high jewelry).

There are a multitude of stones of various qualities. Fine (semi-precious) stones will be more affordable than precious stones (diamond, emerald, ruby, sapphire). The diamond is more regularly chosen for this type of ring. Transparency, clarity, weight (carat) and lack of inclusions will testify to its quality and condition its price.

Often round, the diamond can take different forms: marquise, heart, cushion, triangle, baguette, cone, pear, princess, etc. Be that as it may, it is the delicacy of the cup that will determine the beauty of the stone.

The ring can be accompanied by a crimp of small stones surrounding the main diamond used to sublimate it. This alternative obviously tends to increase the price of the ring.

Just a year ago, we were creating the guide to women’s jewelry for men, allowing us to learn more about the subject. Note that the trend for several years is based on white gold rings. The choice of metal should not be made lightly, we must take into consideration several criteria as specified here by the jewelry OR OF THE WORLD, ethical jewelry :
Engagement Ring - Stones
Engagement Ring – Stones

“Yellow gold is  the  color that offers the most beautiful contrast with the dullest skin, while the pink gold is very clear on light skin. White gold (or platinum) is well suited to all types of  skins. Regarding the choice of the latter, always prefer a palladium white gold to rhodium white gold. Gold is naturally yellow. The rhodium-plated white gold is its white color to treatment of surface the rhodium, which fades over time and must be renewed every year to regain its luster. Palladium white gold, on the other hand, is naturally white because of  its alloy and retains its color. ”

Models close to those worn by some celebrities usually have the coast. This is the case of the ring offered by Prince William to Kate Middleton that you can admire below.

Engagement Ring Prince William to Kate Middleton
Engagement Ring Prince William to Kate Middleton

1. Be attentive to what she likes

Engagement Ring - What She Likes
Engagement Ring – What She Likes

Two elements will come later to determine the choice of this symbolic jewel: the budget and the desire to please him! This last point is obviously crucial. The idea is to opt for a model that will seduce her for sure and that will remain timeless over the years. This is not an easy task, especially considering the number of brands and rings available on the jewelry market. However, she may already have a pretty good idea of ​​what she would like to see around her ring finger in the case of a hypothetical marriage proposal. Better still, she probably innocently sent some signals to which we were not necessarily attentive. It is not too late to try to decrypt them or to bring them to the surface. During walks sometimes accompanied by a bit of showcase licking, it may be that she voluntarily shows a model, a ring style that she finds very beautiful. It is essential to pay particular attention to this type of trip and “innocuous” remarks.

Couple engagement ring

Couple Engagement Ring
Couple Engagement Ring

Beyond the symbolic aspect of buying such a jewel, it must be remembered that in all logic, it proudly displayed on his finger for several decades. In order to make it easier for you to choose, we have prepared a small series of questions whose answers are already in your current environment:

Does she wear jewelry and more specifically rings? If this is not the case, it will certainly be necessary to move towards a timeless and rather discreet model.

Is it a jewel that she can wear and take on a daily basis chosen from Indeed, in the event that you have views of a solitaire with a ruby, sapphire or emerald colored stone, be sure that she dares to put it on his finger in all circumstances (or almost) and with all his outfits.

Does she usually wear discreet or imposing jewelry? If you opt for a prominent diamond, consider practicality and daily tasks. A huge stone can make some dream while others will struggle to wear it every day. You will find the answer to this question simply by observing what it already carries.

Who could help me in this choice? Why not ask someone around to help you and transfer a little of the weight of this heavy mission on the shoulders of an accomplice? Whether it’s her parents or her best friend, you’ll find someone who knows her (almost) as well as you …

Has she ever made reference to the engagement ring that her friend Suzie received during her marriage proposal? She has certainly issued an opinion on the jewel, which allows you to appreciate what he likes or not. Provided of course to remember the kind of model worn by Suzie, that’s another story.

Which size to choose

Engagement Ring - Choose Size
Engagement Ring – Choose Size

One of the questions that will arise during the purchase of the jewel is that of its ring tower. Generally, it is classified by size, from the smallest (46) to the largest (62). If you have no idea, do not panic: most jewellers are selling you the model they have in store and offer to return with the future bride to define its exact size and order the ring. The case is the same when buying online, you will have the opportunity to return the ring to get an exchange. Finally, this big story must absolutely not become a brake or a way to betray you to her.

2. Set a budget to choose engagement ring

Engagement Ring - Setting A Budget
Engagement Ring – Setting A Budget

When you have a little more specific idea of ​​the type of ring that could please your sweetheart, the question of the budget you want to allocate to this object will arise. As discussed earlier in the article, the price of the jewel will depend on the chosen metal (silver, gold, and platinum) as well as the size and regularity of the diamond or stone. It is not easy to evaluate what we can really offer when the world of jewelry is unknown to us. It would be a shame to have to make a consumer loan to finance this big rock.

In this case, you will feel more reassured by browsing the online jewelry sites that offer a wide choice dedicated to this occasion. This approach will allow you to familiarize yourself with the many existing models, to refine your search and why not to concretize this project by placing an order. The purchase of this jewel on the internet can indeed present some advantages:

“Our prices are very attractive because of the lack of a sales outlet and our large sales volumes, unlike traditional jewelry stores. Our catalog offers a wide choice and our deadlines are often shorter. More than 800 engagement rings are available, which allows for very eclectic models to satisfy all desires! We also have our own artisan jeweller who takes care of special requests and tailor-made creations. Not to mention our consultants trained in the world of jewelry able to answer all questions, even the most technical.”

In order to give you some information on the prices charged, we suggest you take a look at these indications (not exhaustive) which may vary depending on the jewellers :
  • If you have a budget very tight but want to create the effect “Wow”  , opt for a solitaire with a silver ring and a stone zirconium oxide. Although this association is less qualitative, we find pretty models from 40 $.
  • If you are not ready to draw a line on a beautiful gold ring (yellow, white, pink) but that your finances are limited, associate it with a stone in zirconium oxide and count minimum 200 $.
  • Despite a limited budget, for you engagement ring rhyme necessarily with gold and real diamond. You will find timeless solitaires and chic with a real stone from $ 200 in jewelry and $ 400 at a jeweller.
  • With a slightly higher budget, you will find more elaborate models with a real stone of pretty size (diamond, ruby, emerald, sapphire …) sometimes decorated with small diamonds mounted on a gold ring.
  • Maybe you have been saving for 2 years in the idea of ​​offering him the ring of his dreams. Some women indirectly submit ideas from major brands that offer exceptional models. In the world of luxury jewelry, you will find fashionable jewelry with the most beautiful metals and the most beautiful stones. All this obviously has a cost since it will at least cost 1,500 € for a simple ring and up to 10,000 € and more for a ring worthy of the jewels of the Crown!

Kiss engagement ring

Kiss Engagement Ring
Kiss Engagement Ring

Attention, far from us the idea to make you empty you’re PEL for the purchase of this engagement rings. It’s up to you to find the right balance between what would be likely to please him and your budget. The last but not least step will be to find the right jeweller who will help you balance these two items. The most difficult will be to choose from the multitude of small rings arranged on both sides of the store.

3. Find the right jeweller for your engagement ring :

Engagement Ring - Jeweller
Engagement Ring – Jeweller

Once the budget is set, it’s time to jump into the water to find the ring. Again, there is really no rule. Some of you will be more comfortable buying it online while others will move into the store. Perhaps you will be attached to finding an ethical jewel that respects certain values ​​and traditions that perfectly match those conveyed by a commitment to marriage. GOLD OF THE WORLD, first green jewellry to certify the origin of its diamonds and to recycle, bring a new light on the way to select this ring in an ethical and responsible spirit:

“Behind the brilliance of gold and stones, the practices of the jewelry industry are often at odds with jewelry symbols of love and commitment. There is enough gold already extracted on the surface of the planet to meet the needs of the jewelry industry for the next 50 years without resorting to highly polluting extraction processes. 99% of diamonds have no traceability and cannot be certified ethical (working conditions, source of financing, environmental impact …). Choosing an ethical engagement ring is to select a unique piece of jewelry in the image of the happy event that it celebrates, in the respect of all those who contribute to its creation, from the miner to the jeweller and in a constant concern for the protection of the environment.”

By going through this post I hope you can easily know which steps you must take to choose your engagement ring. Cheers 🙂

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